how much of a “friendship” to expect in a fwb situation

dear diary, I’ve been starting to hook up with a guy on my tour through Europe. He’s a nice guy and all but he never takes initiative (I’ve had to make most of the first moves) and isn’t very physical affectionate. Now being someone who’s big on physical touch as my love language, I need … Continue reading how much of a “friendship” to expect in a fwb situation

friend to all, best friend to none

"The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears. The kindest hearts have felt the most pain." Dear Diary, Ever since I was a young girl, I've been self conscious about my weight. My dad would tell me that if only I was skinner, I'd have more friends, be … Continue reading friend to all, best friend to none

let’s be young and reckless, come over

"Come Over"- Kenny Chesney "Being young is not about doing right. It's about feeling right. When we are young, we need that adrenaline to keep moving on. We have to stand up after failing, to smile after the tears and most of all... to live after love. So resist, don't give up, love, laugh, sing, … Continue reading let’s be young and reckless, come over

tired of being strong

"You make yourself strong because it's expected of you. You become confident because someone besides you is unsure. You turn into the person others need you to be."- Jodi Picoult Dear Diary, So I'm an extrovert. Like an extreme extrovert. I hate being alone. I need to be around people either physically or via text. … Continue reading tired of being strong

waiting for a text is modern torture

Dear Diary, Should you break things off with someone you're dating if you fear that you may like them more than they like you? So I'm in this weird relationship thingy (see my past posts for reference). He isn't huge on being romantic or sweet verbally. He communicates how he feels romantically though actions. Like … Continue reading waiting for a text is modern torture

defining an undefined relationship

Dear Diary, Dating sometimes sucks, well actually a large majority of the time. I know it sucks for men but I think it may be worse for women. Women seem to overthink things. We need to define what things are. It's an extra level of security to know exactly where you stand. Because face it, men don't … Continue reading defining an undefined relationship